*Completely Speechless*

Some things happen in life that are inevitable. People put their opinions where they aren't welcome and ruin lives and relationships. I remember one relationship that shouldn't have ended. I would mention it nationally, but I prefer to keep everyone wondering. There comes a point in life where you must let go. Sometimes when you finally have, that very person throws you off with a proclamation. It messes you up physically and emotionally. These situations give you bitter confusion that you can't let go. It's extremely draining and unforgivable. So we urge the person to stop. They have a happy life and we all should to. We all deserve it. It's time to move on. This is a post different from most. It's my thoughts on a recent unsettling situation. It's healing to our hearts. I'm sure it's confused everyone. I'm sorry. Tomorrow, I will have better words of wisdom. Until then, happy Sunday!

*Shorter Women More Desirable than Taller Women?*

Many recent studies confirm that shorter women have more estrogen, maternal instinct, and desirability than taller women. On behalf of all of the tall women, I tend to disagree. I believe that values and morals are essential in any females behavior. It is not 100% true that taller women have less estrogen and maternal abilities. I am 5 foot 8 and adore my femininity. I also attract gentleman of all heights. My whole life, I've longed to become a mother. If taller women are as less sexually attractive than shorter women, then why are most of them ideal models? Our society has worshipped taller women for centuries. Sure, it's difficult for some of us to become comfortable with our height, but we didn't ask for this. It doesn't mean that our sex appeal is nonexistent. It's a complete insult and downgrade to hear people worship these studies. It's bad enough that women have their own insecurities. Now they're adding these types of "results" to discourage taller women. Listen, worship your body! You're beautiful and sexually wanted, no matter how tall you may be. In response to someone who said the smaller the better, they're there, but you can't always feel them! ;)

*Whatever Happened to Natalee Holloway?*

Shortly after graduating high school in Alabama, Natalee Holloway went on a trip to Aruba with fellow classmates, never to return again. It's every parents nightmare; your child goes on an every day trip that should be a fun and peaceful time. He or she is under the supervision of past teachers, who allow the graduates to have some space. You trust your children to make the right choices. You know they will, after all, you've raised them right. Maybe you were "too strict" and this is their chance to discover themselves. You never imagine that on the final day of the trip that your child would be missing from the head count. Initially, no one panics. Maybe he or she overslept. Their friends rush to the room to wake them up, but no one is there. All of their belongings are perfectly in place. Their friends' hearts begin to flutter. They don't want to freak out, so they run around the entire hotel searching for them, but the missing is nowhere to be found. Two or three people may have been with the vanished the night before. Guilt starts to choke them. They should have never left the missing alone, especially when they're young and vulnerable. The missing never experienced time away from home. This was their chance to rebel, but at what cost? The victim may have paid the ultimate price, their life. It's unfortunate, but true. Young women are more likely to become targets of rape and kidnapping than men. Aruba and other foreign cities outside of the U.S. have been prime connections to human sex trafficking in the past. When a child goes missing, parents would do anything to keep them alive. No one wants to lose hope for their child and will continue to fight for justice until they're found. Unfortunately, Natalee Holloway was never discovered. All evidence points to one prime suspect, who was convicted of murdering another young girl after Natalee disappeared, Joran VanderSloot. VanderSloot is currently in prison and although he admitted to killing Natalee and disposing of her body on a leaked YouTube video, he was never tried for her murder. Unfortunately, Natalee's body was never found, but her mother, Beth Holloway. has made it her life's purpose to find her daughter. She has become an activist for missing people all over the world and continues her search for her beloved, Natalee. Unfortunately, Natalee may never be found, but she is remembered by all that new her as a sweet, loving, smart, and beautiful girl who had a bright future at her feet. Children must be taught to always stay in groups. Friends must never leave each other on their own, especially in a foreign country. They must never trust anyone, no matter how well they think they know them. Your friend may never get the chance to come home. That guilt, forever lies on your shoulders. Life is more valuable than taking a chance. It should never be cut too short and become a memory. The world is extremely dangerous. Stay together and if you feel a situation is becoming strenuous, contact law enforcement or the proper personnel immediately. Help save a life and stay together. Unfortunately, Natalee never had the opportunity to advance in her dreams, but someone else can. Her body was never found and there is always hope. The prime suspect has since fathered a child, killed an innocent young woman, and is expected to wed. Meanwhile, he was the last person to see Natalee and has moved forward in his miserable life. Karma is strong and I'm sure he is haunted with the truth ever day. It is only a matter of time before it all catches up with him. He will have no choice, but to speak. Unfortunately, he is serving the maximum sentence for murder in a Peruvian prison for 28 years. If he is lucky, he will make it out alive. His victim, Stephany Flores will not. Natalee Holloway may never be seen again. Her fate rests in VanderSloot's hands. I am a firm believer that there is a righteous God and one day, justice will be served for Natalee and her entire family. This is your chance to be safe and stick together. No one wants or deserves to evolve into a memory.

*Vivid Dreams- What Do They Mean To You?*

I'm sure we have all woken up from a shaky dream. Sometimes, it's extremely realistic and feels as if it actually happen. Perhaps it disturbed your heart, made you laugh, cry, and etc. Maybe, you actually wished it was part of your life and didn't want to wake up. You could take the dream as a sign from God. It could be a forewarning or a closure of some relationship. We all have diverse dreams. Sometimes they involve people who have departed our world or people who are still alive. Every dream is a part of our brain. Some have said that dreams are a part of our innermost thoughts. Other refer to them as delusions. I believe every dream has a meaning or they wouldn't exist. I always find myself looking up certain colors or situations that I've dreamt about in a "dream dictionary." Perhaps it's silly, but not to me. If I see a realistic situation occur in my dream, I take it as a blessing. Some people I've dreamt about have passed away and I smile when I open my eyes. I may have not bid them adieu in the waking life, but I did in my dreams. Other dreams are useless and strange. They flutter our hearts and we can't wait to open our eyes. What do they all really mean? Why are they a part of our lives? What significance do they bring us? My overall question is why? 

*High Impact Sports: Would you Allow your Children to Play?*

Whether it's football, soccer, basketball, tennis, boxing, etc. there is always a chance that the player can get injured. Sometimes those injuries are severe and cause players to develop problems in the future. One of the most common injuries that can result is a concussion. Many people don't believe that it's not a major condition, but that is far from the reality. In the future, many of these people who are injured more than once can develop dementia pugilistica, a condition similar to Parkinson's disease. The symptoms can take up to 16 years to occur. It's extremely difficult to grasp the side effects of these sports and there is no way to fully protect your children. If it's their passion, let them experience it. Unfortunately, sometimes you have no choice.

*Great, Inexpensive, Unforgettable, Gifts*

Have a special friend and event coming up? Stumped at what to get them? Buy a nice picture frame that suites them. Google their names, personality meaning of the name, copy, cut and, paste it into a blank word document. After it is in front of you, choose the font and letter size you want. Finally, print it, attach a fashionable picture of your friend, and attach it all in the frame. It's unique, valuable, cherish able, and from the heart. Most likely, they don't already own one and they probably didn't know that a personality meaning existed. Another good idea is a collage of photos from memories you've had together. It's the thought that counts. I'm sure they'll hold these ideas close to their hearts.

*My Views on "Perfect Bodies" and Females*

Hello, Ladies! Many of us have grown up with the idea that a "perfect body" is like the one on the cover of Maxim or Vogue magazine. Is that really what we want? Do you know how many women struggle to transform their bodies into that "perfect shape?" It's highly unlikely that the cover story is the ideal image. Our society should be ashamed of their "sexy looks." In this generation, skinny is the only shape. People grow up with the idea the skin and bones is the acceptable image. They turn to eating disorders or severe dieting to become thin. Whatever happened to healthy? Believe it or not, if you eat healthy and follow a balanced workout routine, you'll look good. Some of us weren't meant to be thin. There are many different body physiques out there. Be comfortable in your own skin. It's the only one you get, so treat it right! We don't get a million chances to change ourselves. Sometimes there is only one. Think things through thoroughly before you decide to alter your appearance. Sometimes we all need change, but only if it's good. Be happy and appreciate what you have. Be unique and not another statistic.