*Loyalty & a Healthy Marriage*

First off, marriage is a virtue and not a joke. Many people jump into relationships, get engaged, and end in divorce. They ask themselves how they allowed it to happen in their early twenties. They weren't thinking! The values from previous generations have disappeared. Unfortunately, marriage isn't as serious as it used to be. People marry for all sorts of situations, but many don't revolve around love. Today, on the eighth day of November, I expressed my gratitude and admiration for my grandparents. They were married 57 years this past August. It's unbelievable and may seem impossible to people of today's era. Their marriage was based on family values, virtues, beliefs, and most importantly true love. For 57 years, they never cheated on one another. Many people may believe it's impossible, but it isn't. They were raised in an era where broken things were mended and not thrown away. They worked together to raise three children and communication was an asset. Of course, their marriage has many imperfections, but they've never abandoned each other. They've supported and believed in one another. Their values were instilled in my mind and I can only dream of a marriage as perfect as theirs. They're my role models and should be all of America's as well. When you're in a compromising situation, think about how prior generations resolved the issue. Maybe, it's time to step back, go back to the 50's, 40's, 30's, 20's, etc. and take their advice. Life, love, marriage, health, and happiness are the most valuable assets in any individuals life, if they choose to take them. If you aren't ready, step back and evaluate your decision. Don't destroy your life or anyone else's if you know it can't work. Trust in each other, don't cheat, communicate, communicate, communicate, and most importantly, work together!