*Where to Shop for Summer Vacation at Low Cost: Women and Men*

Looking for fashion trends at low costs? Not willing to spend $100 on a summer outfit? Tired of shopping at top brand stores and buying cheap material? 

Whether you're a man or woman, tj Maxx, marshalls, or Ross has the best solutions. Not only are their prices affordable, but they have top designer brands at low costs. If you can't afford that Gucci or Guess brand anymore, these places are perfect for you. If you're not too stuck up, I dare you to try them. You can find some Ralph Loren, Juicy, Tommy Hillfiger, Anne Klein, and other designer brands for $30.00 or less. Best part is, no one ever has to know where you got your clothes. Not only is the material durable, but it fits anyone's budget. Instead of spending $200 on one outfit, you can spend that on a few different things. So, broaden your horizons, leave your comfort zone, and explore these affordable shops. You won't be disappointed.

* Coyote Epidemic- South Florida *

"Coy-what? No way? Not in my neighborhood!"

People it's time to wake up! Coyotes are in our neighborhoods. They have left the Everglades and made it to Boca Raton. They're going after small pets and have even killed a small York Shire Terrier. People who live in surrounding areas, such as Coral Springs, Coconut Creek, Deerfield Beach, West Palm Beach, Pompano Beach, Fort Lauderdale, and etc. should be concerned. Just because it's not in your exact location, does not mean it could not reach you. Children and small pets are in danger. It's becoming a small epidemic. I've never heard of coyotes in south Florida. The Everglades aren't enough for them anymore. They're leaving because of fires  and lack of food. They are coming to our towns hungry. This is extremely frightening. They don't only come out at night, they attack during the early morning hours. My husband caught sight of a coyote on the turnpike off the Sample Road exit. They're closer thank you can imagine and small pets and children shouldn't be left unattended. If you can avoid walking pets for the time being, use a dog pad or your back yard if you have one. Take them to a dog park if you have time. Ensure that small children aren't left unattended and are playing in fenced areas. Coyotes are wild animals and they aren't afraid to attack. If you see one, it's important not to panic. Stay perfectly calm and do not run. If it approaches you, act as if you're bigger than the animal. Start throwing rocks or pennies. Use an authoritative voice. If you can manage, call Florida Fish and Wild Life Conservation Commission (FWCC) at (888-404-3922)immediately for further assistance. Obviously, do not approach the animal head on. Signal for as much help as possible. Also, contact the local law enforcement agency.

*Comparing Self Identity Crises: Caitlyn Jenner vs. Rachel Dolezal*

Who are you? Can you answer it comfortably? So many people go through life struggling with the question. Many of us wonder what it's classified as.  The proper words to define a struggle with ourselves is called a self identity crisis. Most of us reach this stage at puberty and overcome it once we hit our later teen years. Sometimes, it reappears in late adulthood as we struggle to find our meaning and place in the world. When does it become a serious issue? When we are forced to lie or alter our natural born identities because we are uncomfortable with them, then it becomes a psychological issue that dwells within the soul. When an individual cannot accept themselves or live in their own bodies, the identity crisis becomes their life. Bruce Jenner and Rachel Dolezal are perfect examples of individuals trapped in a self identity crisis that stems from a psychological stand point. Both individuals are not comfortable with who they truly are and have altered their appearances. Jenner feels that he always has been a she, Caitlyn Jenner, on the inside and Dolezal has always connected as an African American, although, she was born white. They have had a arduous time transitioning in life and chose to alter their  identities. The only way to become comfortable with their "true" selves is to endure extensive psychological treatment. They must except who they are on the inside and who they've become. Caitlyn has accepted her transition from male to female, but Dolezal has not accepted her white roots.  The only way she can accept her origins is to go through treatment and figure out why she chose her identity. She has hurt many people along the way, including her parents. It's one thing to transform into another individual with acceptance and truth, but it's another issue when it becomes a harsh lie that affects the lives of our loved ones. I hope these individuals find peace in their own and original skins because it's not easy. Many people with a self identity crisis turn to self harm when they lack self love. Don't be afraid to reach out for help! Be comfortable with who you are. If not, it's never to late to talk to someone.

If you or someone you know, is in need of serious help, don't hesitate to call the national suicide hotline toll free at: 

1 (800) 273-8255

* You can afford a Fairytale Wedding *

Well, the first person I must thank is my creative and hard working mother. My wedding would have not been possible without her. She put months of all of her time and effort in planning and preparation. Many will ask, "how did you do it? How did you afford it?" Well, I made a budget for myself and stuck to it. First off, I planned my wedding a year in advance. I went to a variety of venues. They were beautiful, but the one I loved was the first one I went to (The Royal Fiesta Event Center). No, it wasn't the most luxurious venue, but it was the most personable. They didn't treat me like a transaction, which most venues did. So, I chose them and they truly made my night memorable. Anywho, let's get back to the planning, Pinterest and etsy were my best friends. They helped me with ideas and I was able to purchase items that were "not affordable" at a lower price. The vendors were more than gracious. They were extremely efficient and professional. Of course, I had an issue with some minor things, such as my invitations and videographer, but those are things I only know. Therefore, my wedding was an overall success. Anywho, think you can't do it, you can. Get ideas from etsy and Pinterest through lots of research and then go to your local arts and crafts store. You can make the same things at a less expensive cost. A lot of my items were handmade, such as my gorgeous bouquet and centerpieces. I know I haven't gone into a lot of detail, but that would spoil the entire idea. You can afford a wedding like mine if you plan ahead, especially if you have a strong support system and people who are willing to help. Thank you! Thank you all!

** "Just Fly" at Cheaper Prices

"Ahh! Tickets are so expensive. Where am I to find an affordable trip? Maybe I will just wait until next year." 

Looking for an accomodations at cheap prices? I have found one of the best solutions. No more orbitz, cheap tickets, travelocity, cheap flights, or going through the airline directly. I was once an avid user of orbitz, but the flight costs are ridiculous. So, I did some research and found justfly.com. Not only are travel prices worth purchasing, the site will not register your IP address while you search for tickets. That, to me, is the definition of reliable. I came across justfly while searching for a ticket to Europe. I saw an 855.00 ticket for departure and an 865.00 ticket for returns. I thought to myself, "this is impossible." Not only was it possible, but it was for a direct trip to Rome from Miami with a connecting flight to Ancona (my destination) at a total of 12 hours duration. The secret is, to keep inspecting the sight. They will say only two seats left, but it's not always true. The flight will come back across your screen. The best time to purchase a trip is on a Tuesday or Wednesday night. I noticed that every other night was well into the thousands. So, hop on just fly and book your ticket at an affordable rate. I promise, you will not be disappointed and you will be able to make the trip. Go now, don't wait or you will regret it.

** Breastfeeding, Why I said, "Yes."**

"Breast What? I am not doing that. You mean the baby has to feed from there? Gross! Breasts aren't meant for that."

People, it's time to stop sexualizing the breast. Stop relating the breast to sexual gratification. Before there was formula, there was solely breast milk. All of our ancestors breast fed their babies. If they didn't breastfeed, there was a town wet nurse, whom gave milk to all of the babies whose mothers did not have enough. Breast milk is a natural thing. It has many vitamins that nourish our babies brains. Researchers recommend breastfeeding for the first two years of life for maximum benefits. Research also shows that breastfed babies perform better than their formula fed counterparts. I know what you're thinking. "Formula was invented for a reason. Breastfeeding isn't for everyone. Who are you to judge anyone?" I am not bashing formula or anyone who chooses to formula feed their children. I was a formula fed baby. Therefore, I respect all mothers who feed their babies! I'm just going to share facts. I had plans of breastfeeding for three to six months and am currently in my 8th month of breastfeeding. I went through hell to breastfeed my daughter because I never give up a battle. I had inverted nipples, mastitis, bleeding and sore nipples, and was just about ready to throw the towel in. If it wasn't for a dear friend of mine who encouraged me to continue, I wouldn't be where I am today. She added me to a breastfeeding support group, "breast friends," that educated me on breastfeeding and its challenges. I read about the additives in formula and the unknown that exists in them. I decided I did not want my child to consume that. My breastmilk came in after two days. My daughter was determined to feed off of me. I wouldn't have made it through without Mama Earth's Nipple Butter. There were many times I cried my eyes out. I always asked myself, "why." When I read stories from other mothers in, "Breast Friends," I knew the answer. Believe it or not, so many people seek breastmilk. There are many children who are classified as "failure to thrive" and benefit from the natural nutrients of breastmilk. Their parents are unable to produce or adopt them and are incapable of producing, so they go on different websites in search of milk (Human Milk 4 Human Babies- Florida and Eats on Feats- Florida). There are also many mothers desperate for milk because they stopped producing. Believe it or not, if you have breastmilk and are willing to donate, these websites help you. Never trust anyone trying to sell their stash. Mothers are extremely grateful for whatever you give them. Some have even made me cry. Don't take anything natural for granted. That's why breast milk is "liquid gold." Some people use it as a method to cure their cancers. So, next time you judge a breastfeeding mother for being uncovered or whatever the case may be, consider what she's doing. Feeding her child. Admire her and offer encouragement. She may be an angel nourishing the world. If you are breastfeeding and have an extra stash of milk please, please look up the agencies provided. DONATE! DONATE DONATE! Your milk is someone else's treasure. If you've considered not breastfeeding, maybe now you will. If you're a formula feeding mother who judged people who nursed their children, maybe now you won't.

** Overcoming the Summer Downfall **

You have all heard the saying, "wouldn't it be nice if money grew on trees?" Oh how great that would be!

It's no secret that with summer, slow season follows. In a position where tips count, it's important to save your money for the summer downfall. No matter how hard you work, hustle, and put yourself out on the line, you find yourself breaking less than $100 a day. What can you do? It would make sense to frown, pout, and dwell on the situation, but what's that going to solve? Of course, you will doubt yourself and your ability to make money, but it's not only you, it's everyone. If you haven't put some money aside, the slow season will be brutal. You may find yourself searching for another position, but trust me, it's not worth it. Especially, if you've been with your current company for over a few years. You have seniority. Do you know how arduous it is to start at square one? Now you know the secret! Save, save, save. Don't buy that new blouse or tv if you don't really need it. Your bank account will be screaming at you later. If you're not a saver, maybe now is the time to learn how to save. Open up a bank account if you don't have one. Try to put $20.00 a week in it for the next 3 months and don't touch it. By the end of those 3 months, you will have accumulated approximately $240.00. Don't touch that money and continue your $20.00 deal for the rest of the year. By the end of the year, if you don't touch the money, you will have $960.00. I know that doesn't seem like much, but that's money you didn't have saved before. If you continue to do it, you will accumulate more and you can use the account as an emergency fund during rough times, especially slow season. That doesn't mean, wipe out the account. It means use the money for gas here and there if you're in a bind because you barely made enough to cover groceries and rent for the week. Learning how to save isn't easy, but it's worth it. If you can do more than $20.00 a week, you will have double the profit in your account. It's hard to make a dollar, so don't waste your money on unnecessary things. Remember, there will be tough times that come along and remind you of how hard you work like slow season. So, why waste your money on worthless items? Remember your NEEDS before your WANTS!!! Unfortunately, there is a slow season and money doesn't grow on trees. Appreciate what you work for and keep working hard! You will survive the summer downfall of less than $100 a day.  When busy season comes along, don't waste that money. Remember how truly hard it is to make and how fortunate you are to have it.